Selena Gomez, The Weeknd and Justin Bieber: Love + Learn

What was expected to be the start of a truly great relationship, we now learn is no more. Selena Gomez and her singer/songwriter boyfriend, The Weeknd (née Abel Tesfaye) are done.  Let us all spend a moment in silence, because these two were such an adorable couple.

But despite feelings of sadness for the end of Selena and The Weeknd’s 10-month relationship, it seems Selena has been spending quite a bit of time with Justin Bieber. Like, a lot. And one has to wonder if it’s possible that they may be rekindling their old-school romance.

Justin has appeared to turn a new leaf in his new-found quest for spiritual enlightenment by shedding his “bad boy” ways for a little Gospel. But I would be remiss if I didn’t caution Selena from making another mistake.

Yes, Selena. You’ve tried dating other people for which I applaud you. It’s hard to move on from your first love, but there was a reason for the repeated breakups; reasons that go beyond public knowledge.

As someone who was literally on their death bed only months ago, you’ve learned a true-life lesson on, “Tomorrow isn’t promised.” So rather than revert back to old creature comforts, it’s OK to be a little uncomfortable with someone new.

You deserve better than Justin Bieber. No knock, just truth.

Protect your heart.

xo

Jasmine Diaz

Photo credit Selena Gomez/Instagram

Jasmine Diaz

Dating Strategist & Blogger, VeryUnmarried

Jasmine Diaz is a celebrity matchmaker and dating strategist with over 15 years experience helping singles nationwide. She has been featured in Huffington Post, NY Post, Marie Claire, Men’s Fitness, Brides, Refinery 29, Yahoo!, MTV, OWN, Bravo, VH1, ESSENCE, Ebony and Latina Magazines.